Anxiety is the feeling of feeling unsafe, the sense that something, you’re not sure what, is soon going to harm you. This emotion is too critical for survival to simply be told to go away. But if you get in touch with its purpose, it doesn’t have to hinder you.
Art of Feeling
Four Tips for Creating an Emotional Safety Net Around You
Emotional safety is vital for both psychological and physical well-being. Here are four tips for creating an emotional safety net in your life.
Lower the Emotional Temperature this Thanksgiving in Six Steps
Thanksgiving is nearly here. How can we make sure that we actually enjoy our holiday and make it a time to reconnect, be thankful for one another, and not let our differences pull us apart? By lowering the emotional temperature.
Emotional Safety: What it is and Why it is so Important
Emotional safety is the basic building block for all healthy human relationships. It’s a critical element for happiness and vital for psychological and physical health. Yet more and more people seem to be lacking it.
What Fuses, Washing Machines & Cars Can Teach us About Emotional Resilience
Like the car insurance commercial says, there are times when life comes at you hard and fast! So how can you become more emotionally resilient? Here are three ways that you may not have thought of…
Taming the Dragon – What to Do When Your Anxious Partner Lashes Out
Does your otherwise sane and loving partner have a tendency to verbally lash out at you when they feel anxious and insecure? Here’s what it means – and what to do about it.
The 7 Habits of Emotionally Successful People
Who wouldn’t want to be emotionally successful, able to meet all the emotional challenges of life? But maybe we’ve got emotional success backwards. Maybe the best way to become emotionally successful, at least for many of us, is to become successfully emotional.
How to Raise Your Emotional Awareness in Five Minutes or Less—Interoceptively
Do you want to feel more centered, more grounded, more comfortable in your skin? Then raise your interoceptive awareness, your ability to sense, “hold” and accurately interpret your bodily feelings. It will change the whole way you relate to your feelings, and yourself.
Emotional Triggers: Why They’re Hard to Spot, and What You Can Do About Them
Got triggered lately with your partner? Understand what happened—and learn how to talk through that painful episode with them in a way that brings you closer, not further apart.
It’s Good to Share Your Emotional Reactions (Even When They’re Irrational). Here’s How
Wouldn’t it be nice if all your unwanted feelings would behave themselves and go away? Unfortunately, they won’t! Do you have to keep them to yourself? Or can you share them with your partner anyway (and still avoid a blow-up)? Read on…
About Us
We’re Dr. Helene Brenner and Larry Letich. Helene is a licensed psychologist in private practice for more than 30 years. Larry is an individual and couples therapist for 20 years. Besides being therapists, we’re co-authors and partners in life and love for more than four decades.









